Showing posts with label how to break up. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how to break up. Show all posts

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

How to break up with my Boyfriend

Sa lahat na gusto makikipag break sa inyong Boyfriend. heres the tip on how to break up with your boyfriend.

Men are generally harder to break up with than females. For that reason, here are some guidelines you should follow when breaking up with a man.

* Keep it simple. The more he understands about the break up the easier it'll be for the both of you.
* Keep it short. The faster you get it over with the better and the longer you are together the worse.
* Leave no "maybes." Don't make him think there's a possibility of getting back together or else he may never leave you alone and just get even more the jealous when you meet someone new.
* Tell him in person. If possible, tell him in person. It'll be easier on the both of you. However, if there is abuse in the relationship, seek a friend to tell him for you or write a letter.
* Stay calm. If you are calm, he will be calm.

Breaking up with guy is as hard as you want it to be. The quicker you get it over with the better, there is no use in waiting unless there is a 50% chance of changing your mind. Just keep the break up easy to understand and speak calmly and everything will be fine.

Monday, May 10, 2010

How to Write a Break up Letter

How to Write a Break up Letter
To begin with, break up letters should be reserved for middle schoolers and abusive relationships; otherwise you are asking for trouble. Break up letters are one of the easiest ways to handle a break up, but may also leave a huge mess behind. So if you want to stay friends, take the high road and tell them in person.

Otherwise, you can follow these rules in writing a break up letter.

Keep the letter precise. Don't beat around the bush and tell them you love them or once did love them.
Keep it short. No one wants to read more than what they have to when reading a letter like this, so keep it under a page.
Make sure they understand that the relationship is over. If you leave any hint that it's not over, they will be back.
Follow these rules and you should be fine. Just remember that if you think there is a possibility of a future relationship, you might want to handle your break up a different way or simply just tell them (in person) that you want a break and explain why. Otherwise, make sure they understand that the relationship is over and you aren't coming back.

Just for insurance, if your relationship is too far out of hand and abusive, you may consider getting a restraining order or moving away/staying with family or friends for a while until your ex-partner relaxes. Break ups can cause bottled up emotions, specifically anger, to break out.


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